The Hunter Games...

.Has conversation with (male) buddy this morning... about how "Alpha males" prefer the chase....context... he didn't find a particular female very interesting as she appeared 2 keen...
My response... er what is an  "Alpha male " 2 day anyway? Women are expected 2 earn and deliver (sic)... so why (if they so choose) on earth should they hesitate to go after what they like?

This conversation is of course post a cultural  innundation and acclimatisation all the self styled experts (blabbing away on every medium)... women's magazines, how 2 tomes etc... re how one should allow a  man 2 chase.... & play hard 2 get... ergo... end result... confused sets of both genders scampering about ...what do men/ women really want? what did he/ she really mean... & further mayhem ensues...

Now personally speaking I am accustomed to being pursued but I have never and will never play games... to me it is disrespectful & a complete and utter waste of time... in fact I have been sniggered @ 4 being a complete flop @ the fine art of flirting... truth 1.. I've never needed notches 2 verify my"desirability" quotient...truth 2.. I don't agree with stringing someone along 4 the heck of it or being strung along... I'm pleased 2 note that (much of ) 2day's generation pays not the slightest heed to such nonsense...

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The Book of Netiquettes....

Can someone please write the book of NETIQUETTES.. (sic)...
so I can fling it @ all and sundry.... in the digital age... whats cool? whats not?
Are Watsapp messages a bonafide form of communication? (Id wholeheartedly endorse... anything that protects me from telephone talk .. see I has this funda... watsapp and IM allow multitaskin.... so many admirers so little time... #rofc... after all a gals attn has 2 be earned no?)

Though many disagree... who are these people... is there an age demographic? I adore connecting with folks on All social media... fb, twitter, linked in etc... however connecting is ALL.... If I can help I will but please desist with the over familiarity...(I had 2 have words with an affronted stranger recently who strode off my wall in a huff)...  dont please get me started on the proverbial and multi versioned... "I vants 2 make fraandships with u.". . albeit Im witnessing smoother, more sophisticated versions lately....

Takes da cake moment... a 21 year old girl sends me a friend request...I accept thinkin shes lookin for career gudiance...an internship or some such... she tells me that she has a friend who " likes me" but is scared to approach me... I ask how old said friend is? 23!!!! & finally 2 those of u are super critical of social media.. and  denounce fb / twitter as a "waste of time"... I wonder how you are still so aware of ALL my online shenanigans...? xo xo...

Positively the last straw.... Linked in connections writing in 2 tell me I'm cute/hot etc....

Merryweather musings...

I've seen monsoons in Manila , Typhoons in Taipei....
They aint got nothin on Mumbai......
Theres somethin bout this city & this season...
Romance with very little  reason...
Enjoy Marine Drive's breeze by all means...but beware those high seas...
Don't get so  caught up in the moment... u end up swept up by
the Ocean..
Here's 2 the Rainy season... . may u huddle under your umbrellas, skip over the slush..
May your focus shift from traffic woes....potholes & sodden soles...
2 everything  green & lush.
May you ... like me always see... the awesome beauty that abounds...
Amazing sights & sounds...
A city transformed from gray 2 green....
Chase a rainbow 2 the ground....
Raindrops glisten on  blooming trees..
How much hope do you need?

For you.

When our path's on this earth  no longer entwine...
I pray the connection remains...
Forever divine. <3 p="">When 2mrw a new dawn will break .. each of us our own road we must take....
No need 2 look back...No need 4 dismay...
Words superfluous...emotions  awry..
Just know that your light will always reflect mine...
Forever a flame.... It knows naught reason or rhyme...
Been this way 4rm the start...
The depth of the ocean... language of the heart.
Guess our souls knew b4....  life times ago...
Some threads never fray...Some bonds wont break...
Many tomorrows our Soul's flight will take