Thursday, July 30, 2015

Tarot Truths...

Points 2 Remember with regards 2 any kind of esoteric reading....

a) A reader should radiate light , guidance & help (Re) illuminate your own ..(all of ours grow dim on occasion)

b) Absolutely no fear or control based shenanigans....turn firmly away 4rm negativity...if u walk out of a reading feeling anything less than awesome & connected with urself....u know....

c)  Tarot is a tool (amongst many) 2 help guide u with choices n consequences... but u drive ur own bus....sink ur own ship (sic)...& anyone who attempts 2 tell u otherwise is not operating 4rm their highest self... (in my not so humble opinion)....


d) Everything really is energy.. most times we create our own reality a good reader / medium/healer will remind u  & guide u  accordingly...

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

The Hunter Games...

.Has conversation with (male) buddy this morning... about how "Alpha males" prefer the chase....context... he didn't find a particular female very interesting as she appeared 2 keen...
My response... er what is an  "Alpha male " 2 day anyway? Women are expected 2 earn and deliver (sic)... so why (if they so choose) on earth should they hesitate to go after what they like?

This conversation is of course post a cultural  innundation and acclimatisation all the self styled experts (blabbing away on every medium)... women's magazines, how 2 tomes etc... re how one should allow a  man 2 chase.... & play hard 2 get... ergo... end result... confused sets of both genders scampering about ...what do men/ women really want? what did he/ she really mean... & further mayhem ensues...

Now personally speaking I am accustomed to being pursued but I have never and will never play games... to me it is disrespectful & a complete and utter waste of time... in fact I have been sniggered @ 4 being a complete flop @ the fine art of flirting... truth 1.. I've never needed notches 2 verify my"desirability" quotient...truth 2.. I don't agree with stringing someone along 4 the heck of it or being strung along... I'm pleased 2 note that (much of ) 2day's generation pays not the slightest heed to such nonsense...

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The Book of Netiquettes....

Can someone please write the book of NETIQUETTES.. (sic)...
so I can fling it @ all and sundry.... in the digital age... whats cool? whats not?
Are Watsapp messages a bonafide form of communication? (Id wholeheartedly endorse... anything that protects me from telephone talk .. see I has this funda... watsapp and IM allow multitaskin.... so many admirers so little time... #rofc... after all a gals attn has 2 be earned no?)

Though many disagree... who are these people... is there an age demographic? I adore connecting with folks on All social media... fb, twitter, linked in etc... however connecting is ALL.... If I can help I will but please desist with the over familiarity...(I had 2 have words with an affronted stranger recently who strode off my wall in a huff)...  dont please get me started on the proverbial and multi versioned... "I vants 2 make fraandships with u.". . albeit Im witnessing smoother, more sophisticated versions lately....

Takes da cake moment... a 21 year old girl sends me a friend request...I accept thinkin shes lookin for career gudiance...an internship or some such... she tells me that she has a friend who " likes me" but is scared to approach me... I ask how old said friend is? 23!!!! & finally 2 those of u are super critical of social media.. and  denounce fb / twitter as a "waste of time"... I wonder how you are still so aware of ALL my online shenanigans...? xo xo...

Positively the last straw.... Linked in connections writing in 2 tell me I'm cute/hot etc....

Friday, June 12, 2015

Merryweather musings...


I've seen monsoons in Manila , Typhoons in Taipei....
They aint got nothin on Mumbai......
Theres somethin bout this city & this season...
Romance with very little  reason...
Enjoy Marine Drive's breeze by all means...but beware those high seas...
Don't get so  caught up in the moment... u end up swept up by
the Ocean..
Here's 2 the Rainy season... . may u huddle under your umbrellas, skip over the slush..
May your focus shift from traffic woes....potholes & sodden soles...
2 everything  green & lush.
May you ... like me always see... the awesome beauty that abounds...
Amazing sights & sounds...
A city transformed from gray 2 green....
Chase a rainbow 2 the ground....
Raindrops glisten on  blooming trees..
How much hope do you need?

Wednesday, June 3, 2015

For you.

When our path's on this earth  no longer entwine...
I pray the connection remains...
Forever divine. <3 p="">When 2mrw a new dawn will break .. each of us our own road we must take....
No need 2 look back...No need 4 dismay...
Words superfluous...emotions  awry..
Just know that your light will always reflect mine...
Forever a flame.... It knows naught reason or rhyme...
Been this way 4rm the start...
The depth of the ocean... language of the heart.
Guess our souls knew b4....  life times ago...
Some threads never fray...Some bonds wont break...
Many tomorrows our Soul's flight will take





Sunday, May 31, 2015

Amor Vincent Omnia... Halfway between the gutter and the stars...

I know , I know..

I'm talking love in the time of e hook ups... tsk...I've witnessed more unhappy marriages than any other kind,  experienced volatile relationships and really by now... should be at eye rolling stage...
I am also constantly being accused of wearing rose colored glasses..(give me that over cynical ANYDAY)/ I have also seen (admittedly fewer) rock solid relationships that have gone the distance... withstanding the gamut of potential hazards ranging from economic crises to kids to conflicting career schedules to the daily tedious trials and tribulations,

However there are times in life... when random circumstances , near strangers  can force you to stop and think... really question your beliefs...


 I walked into a store  today... and the lady  complimented my Latin inscriptions &; asked me what they meant... when I explained that one means "She flies with her own wings" , her eyes widened &; I could tell she totally connected with that... she said "As a single woman, today  I TOTALLY get that one and love it.."

Then ...

I explained the other inscription reads " Love conquers all things"... she looked thoughtful for a second and then said... "Does it"?

Mom at this point jumps in  (in full Doberman mode).. "Not if its going to hurt you it doesn't"... Once I'd distracted her...I thought about what the lady said...and responded... " To me Love in its purest form ... does".
She said" I believe that sometimes as much as you love someone, as much as you give them love, keep giving them love no matter how they treat you....it still doesn't work"...

I said some (hopefully) empathetic &  reassuring things ...  and left her store...but our conversation is still ringing in my brain... Having Lived and Loved wholeheartedly... ( & knowing full well I will again :)!) I have this to say... Love and relationships are not always synonymous... though ideally of course we'd all love them to be....

 You may not choose to remain in a relationship which consistently fails to meet your needs.. but that does not prevent you from loving the person. I believe, love if it exists at the start , never really goes away...it may assume a different hue, a different context but it wont go away...

Do you love someone because they can fulfill your expectations?  Was it you who misjudged their ability to do so  in the first place? If they have lied, cheated whatever... I maintain that , that is a reflection of their character more than anything else...& I do believe they will pay the price for it. ie losing you...

Ask yourself  your true reasons for getting into the relationship... &; staying in it.

I do believe in love a very pure almost idealistic version..... do I think I will be able to practise it in reality myself much less expect it from another? I'm not certain....

What do you believe?

Thursday, May 28, 2015

Respectfully irrelevant...Corporate Capers...Why you need 2 read this & maybe rethink your HR strategy...

So lets just put it out there that your's truly isn't the most reverential sort @ work...
I am respectful always but expect to see that reciprocated company wide...
Alas I have a sense of humor & refuse to take myself to seriously... thankfully today's wave is in sync.
And I draw the line @ schmoozing 2 climb the corporate ladder...
Alas imagine my dismay (& distaste) when it dawned that this is actually deeply ingrained in many org. cultures.
Imagine my further woe when I discovered that healthy confrontation is frowned upon... most are encouraged to spend hours dissing colleagues or planting a knife in your back while smiling sweetly to your face... I've seen a lot of senior Hr folks actively encourage this and  attempt to sneakily ferret out information @ the behest of  management.
News flash guys... if you have sufficient EQ levels and are suitably connected this sort of approach will be unnecessary.
Its not about performance  at all its simply becomes a game of one upmanship at all costs. Ethics and morals be damned...tell me how healthy can this sort of thing be for your business ?

Don't get me wrong I'm not dissing a competitive environment... but nurturing a healthy one with  a clear set of ethics is imperative. Its about equilibrium , true transparency ( never at the cost of breaching confidentiality) ,trust , creating & maintaining an engaged workforce.. where at least a majority perceive themselves as stakeholders...

I know many out there will peg me an idealist.... ( er without dreams where are we?) but I truly believe that this fosters a culture of mistrust...and separation. You are automatically isolating employees & encouraging them to think solely about themselves, (encouraging defensiveness &  unethical practise) and their own moments in the spotlight, career trajectory etc.. how many  go beyond themselves & are truly invested in your business ?
Your corporate values may claim transparency but how many of your employees regard themselves as stakeholders/ embody your brand?

Here's a heads up/ news flash... It ain't gonna work no more...
There's a whole new generation out there.... who are as irreverent as er me... but if you engage them right... you'll get the best out of them.
Worse ...(depending on how you look @ it) they have an entirely entrepreneurial mindset and a very conducive environment to go down precisely that path...
If you don't  engage them you are going to lose them , STAT.
At the risk of oversimplification.. people need to know you care, they need to feel valued & recognised & respected.  When they truly believe @ their core that what they do makes a difference... that the company cares about their welfare...they become invested and that automatically enhances productivity... You can take that to the CRM, Mis bank and  measure till the cows come home.

Today more than ever before... young people are astute, exposed to a wide gamut of information / education and hence are all too aware of their options ..the onus then is on the Leadership Team to ensure engagement ALL of the time. For many that will mean flipping everything you know & have adhered to in your own leap up the ladder (and are clinging on to for dear life)  on its head... & making employees your focus...& priority. ( Yes i just said that). What drives them, what will keep them... ensuring they remain engaged, invested and therefore focused...
PS- You are going to need a lot of energy :)!

Small fine print  : I seldom rant & rave (on HR / Leadership issues) but care enough 2 step out on a limb this time... just my humble view ( please forgive irreverence & plain speaking).